UPDATE Found Out Wife of 25 Yrs Was Cheating After The AP Tried To End Himself. Surviving Infidelity

My story with my wife(46F) begins in the 70s, my parents immigrated from Brazil to the US in 1970, they met another couple that had immigrated from Brazil a few years earlier and had just moved to Dallas, they became really close friends, 2 years after that they opened a business together. In 73 that couple got pregnant, around the same time my mom also got pregnant, I was born 4 days earlier than my wife, our families didn’t have any extended family in the US so we were each others family basically, her mom used to babysit me while my mom worked and since I am an only child and her sisters were born 8 years later we were basically raised together, we were inseparable, basically joined by the hip as my mom used to say. Our parents used to take vacations together and when my parents took vacations they used to take her with us, we used to have barbecues every weekend and we always went together to church on Sunday, we were best friends. Story 1: UPDATED: Wife (46F) and I(46M) together sinc