How Sick Parents Destroy You (or: Why I am Childless)
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Breach of boundaries, annexation and appropriation, objectification
Appeasement or rebellion strategies (wrath of the gods vs. apotheosis: codependent people-pleasing vs. antisocial narcissism)
Splitting (child all bad, mommy all good), never integration
Projection is always projective identification
(because parents perceived as infallible: child identify with parts that a parent placed on them, well into adulthood)
Social isolation Self-referential isolation (negative bad object or inflated, impossible ideal ego that transforms into bad object)= impaired reality testing
Obstructed separation-individuation via ambient emotional blackmail or emotional incest
Sibling hierarchies and competition
Cult vs. Others (they are wrong, they are enemies, they will never understand, they are evil, we must protect our secrets)
Instrumentalizing leads to adulation but unrealistic expectations and coercive snapshotting
Parentifying: I am never good enough, I am responsible for other people’s welfare
Immaturity, regressive infantilism, imaginary friends, paracosm, fantasy as defense and shared
Ego failure (no integrated or constellated self, just fragments)
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