The Real Reason Relationships Fail | Abby Medcalf | TEDxOneonta

Nearly every couple Abby meets tells her this one concept is a complete game-changer. After just one session, they’re able to get rid of their habit of keeping score and, instead, adopt a new mindset of seeing themselves as a shared, collaborative resource. This shift in perspective results in a deeper connection and a happier, more fulfilled relationship (even if their partner won’t do a thing). Abby Medcalf is a psychologist, author and speaker. She has spent the last 30 years helping thousands of peopl